How Narcissists Cause Misery: Breaking Free from Their Toxic Games

As a result of their conduct, these nefarious individuals are causing an exceptionally high number of people to experience an excessive level of misery. The narcissist will become entirely psychotic in situations where you are the one who is despised, yet you succeed in spite of it. Not only do you prevail against their hatred strategy, but you also rediscover happiness after it has been used against you. When you are able to keep your cool and behave politely in spite of the narcissist’s actions, which are intended to incite anger, you demonstrate composure — a remarkable display of self-control.

If we exhibit no emotions in their presence, the real message becomes clear: there is no more supply, and the narcissist views you as a monster. Caution is crucial when we get rid of the narcissist, as it could result in a narcissistic injury, making you the person they despise. Refusing to answer their calls or interacting with their “flying monkeys” in an emotionally neutral manner reflects a thoughtful approach to dealing with them. When we show that morality is rewarded in life and remain steadfast on a virtuous path, we can be showered with abundant rewards.

Children of narcissists, in particular, may confront their narcissistic parent and express what they perceive as wrong in their behavior. I advocate this course of action for children, but not for spouses. After enduring immense suffering, the child often shows bravery in exposing their parent’s sick games. Every time a narcissist is compelled to face the authorities, they are unable to overcome the situation with their usual manipulative tactics. In instances where a parent separated from their children manages to reunite with them, it brings hope and healing. Ultimately, it is imperative that narcissists do not forget the lesson: to live a life of joy and fulfillment, one must avoid becoming someone who despises and destroys others.