Integrity in the Middle of Inner Conflict

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sayu9073 days ago6 min read

Life is all about making decisions that are actually going to be very influential when facing the situations that we may get into in the future. It's the decisions that we make that are made with keeping in mind the values that we believe in, which is going to be very helpful for us to make a certain kind of decision instead of another one.

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They can be a lot of values that we believe in as well and those are going to be the ones that come into our mind when we are going to be experience in certain kind of situations as well which is going to promote those values within our own cells but there can be many such Complex situations when we might not be able to make a decision based on the values that we already possess.

But on the other side, there are also a lot of such situations when it becomes even more difficult for us to navigate through because it becomes a particular situation when there are multiple values that live in, aby they are conflicting within their own selves, and that is when it becomes far more difficult to make a particular decision. There are many such conflicts that we actually come across, but this particular kind of conflict is definitely going to make us face a particular situation when we have to give a particular value more priority than the other one.

And there are many such crossroads which we actually find ourself in while travelling in the journey of life itself because there will be far more such complicated situations when we have to be making a particular call in this regard and having those conflicting values which is going to be essential for us to be picking one of them and this is something which keeps on happening a cross our entire life as well.

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In those situations of having conflicting values it becomes a particular situation when we have a lot of guilt within our own self because we are not able to actually choose one over the other and we actually think about it as having to just pick a side and that is when it becomes even more tough for us as it is not aligning with either of the values that we believe in making the situation even more tough or us.

One of the things that we believe in quite a lot is going to be about the fact that all of the values that we believe in are going to be aligning together in every single situation which in reality is never going to happen because there are going to be attend of such situations when we might be having to choose among multiple values that we believe in and that is a particular choice that we have to be making as well because we shall making is something that is definitely going to be needed to be done with respect to the situation that we are having.

There is very big sense of guilt within our own self which we start feeling when we have to be actually making a choice among multiple values but the first thing that we should be absolute trying to implement is going to be actually accepting the fact that there are conflicting values with in our own self which is actually a particular aspect that we should not be avoiding even if it is very much opposite to each other and after that we should be trying to just figure out the path that each of those values are telling us to take in that particular situation.

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We have to be analysing every single thing that each of those options have to offer to US and then have to just think about where those values actually got implemented within our mind set along with that it is going to be giving us a better picture about which is going to be more applicable to the situation itself and later on just have the faith with in our ownself because every single conflict is going to be dependent on the situation itself and it is not going to actually make us food to completely let go of the mindset that we have built over so long.

And finally when we are actually about to make the decision we have to be just thinking about what we actually want to do another then thinking about making the perfect decision because we have to be deciding based on the thing that we are actually believing in and we can be standing by till the end of it rather than hunting what might be the perfect decision at this point of time because everything me seeing little bit tough to choose from and one of the best things that we can be doing is to be actually selected what we feel is going to be the one that we can stand by.

These kind of conflicts within our own values are very much common throughout our life and the more we face these kind of situations we are going to get a bit more clarity about life itself and it is going to develop a lot of deeper emotions and the ability to judge situations and many other sides are also going to be growing with in these particular conflicts which we are facing because they are going to happen to be those experiences which are going to make us even more Complex and be able to deal with those situations with a new strength.