Mastering the Art of Understanding: Empathy and Patience
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To make you understand that to others, an individual is always the most critical. Every human is unique and distinct in their culture, religion, psychology, and individuality. People also thought that individuals and uniqueness, to narrate it to others and make them understand, is really a big headache. You are trying to say something they will understand opposite meaning. Sometimes people will take your word wrongly, and sometimes in a negative way, which we have faced in our daily lives. There are different types of approaches, timing, narration, and the mood of the person are the subjects to make them understand.
Sometimes you will find arrogant people who would never like to understand you, even if they understood that, they won’t accept you for the understanding. If a person pretends to sleep, then no one can get that individual out of sleep. It means the person should have tried and be interested in understanding you. To make other people understand that timing is the most important, because if you make other people understand you at the wrong time. A person is mourning for sudden death of his father at that time, if you go to understand the importance of donation to that individual who recently lost his father, which could be a bad timing. Or if someone got into an accident and required treatment, at that time, you are trying to make that person understand the honesty, which would be a bad time. If you want to make a person understand you, then you should have a clear and penetrating understanding of that topic; a perfect and suitable narration could be effective to make others understand you. To make other people understand you, you should understand the individual's mood. If in a good mood, then it will be easy to make the individual understand that easily, but in a bad mood, your efforts could be null and void. The most important thing is approach, your approach should be in a proper and positive way.
To make everyone understand you, you have to consider the age and knowledge of that individual. You should consider kids, young, youth, older, nature, and gender while making them understand you easily. For the kids, you have to be a loving, caring, adorable, and kid-friendly personality; on the other hand, you have to be polite, gentle, and wise to make an older to understand you. There are also different ways and approaches for various relationships, including those with family, friends, neighbors, and society, all of which have distinct individual mindsets and perspectives. To make everyone understand you, always require truthfulness, honesty, and trustworthiness in your character. Lying and cunning should be desired from your approach and mentality, which could have a bad impact in the future or sometimes backfire. Lies to manage or make someone understand you could work instantly, but in the future, you could suffer to make the same person understand you after disclosing your lies. So, to make everyone understand you, you have to take care of all of these points and issues. Patience is also the most important in all respects.
In my personal life, all the time I wasn’t successful, but I always tried to be honest, with truth, loving, caring, gentle, respectful, narrative, easy, patient, and with positive approaches to make everyone understand me easily with the individuals. And now I’m trying to pay more attention to make everyone understand me with my character.
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