How I Overcome The Stress and Anxiety

Greetings everyone, I'm glad to participate in this Sci-fi weekly prompt

People used to say that depression is real. I'm not really believe in it until I passed through it. There was a time I'm passing through a lot to the extent that it has affected me mentally.

Some years back it was happened that I was dating one lady then, to be honest we really love ourselves to extent that we don't keep any secrets for each other and one day this girl told that she want to further on her study and she also said that there's nobody that want to help her and I told that she has a good motive.

Next day at my work I was thinking about the good motive she has and make a conclusion in my mind to sponsor her but what I'm afraid of is what people use to say about this kind of things and I also informed my friends about but most of condemned the idea and others told me that I should not do such things for her and one of friend said that if sponsor her at University level she we find another person.

For all the advice that have seek, I still make my decision to sponsor her. But to cut the story short I sponsor her and I provide for her needs. Her first year in school we usually talk everyday even sometime we talk every night and she usually complaint to me that guy's are disturbing her and she also said even lecturers are also disturbing her but she said to me that I should calm that nothing will happen and I was happy with these reply from her.

About 9 months later I discovered that our communication has not really been like before. Sometimes if I call her she will say that she is busy. And if I message her she will not reply, I was been battle this for months and one day I make a decision to check her for their school, and I takes one of my friend along and on getting to her hostel and some guys hugging her because that day they are doing hostel party when she saw she was shock that's our relationship end.

But for some months I started passing through a lot that it affects me mentally but to the help of my friends advice sometimes because they stood by me and to help of God I overcome the stress and Anxiety that's how I managed the pressure of life

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