Giving up, not even an option

Life is another name of struggle. The life of everyone is not the same but almost everyone needs to go through a certain level of difficulties in life and struggle a lot for it doesn't matter the financial condition of family background of a person. It is seen as inevitable. At the same time, it is also truth that our struggling phase makes us strong. Every time it's not so easy to find the solution. There are several times in life when after making efforts we get nothing in result and when such a thing happens again and again feeling discouraged or demotivated is very natural and manure passes used to give up thinking that this is not the suitable way for us.

It says that failure is the part of success, and I think one- or two-times value man of make impact on us too much but when we fail consistently, it breaks the spirit of us. Gathering courage and trying again is not easy. I think that giving lectures or saying not to lose hope and keep trying again and again is very easy but the person who goes through the situation can understand it well and knows how difficult it is to face such a situation. The chances are high for everyone to face such a situation at least once in life. This is something that we don't want to face but we are bound to face it. Maybe it's destiny or maybe it's fate. What was the situations were like that?

I guess I was lucky enough in that case as I didn’t face any serious issue. In my life there were not so many incidents that can demotivate me with constant failure. I suppose I suffered a lot due to my lack of good memorizing power in academics, which I have mentioned many times in my various posts. I think lack of good memorizing power I supposed to be lag behind from any average student and it was unacceptable to me. I was stubborn and I knew my weakness, but I couldn’t allow myself to lag behind for my weakness.

So, I applied different types of strategies which were not so effective at the beginning. I doubled by efforts and later tripled my efforts when I understood I could go only that way. The situation was like I was spending whole day in front of my desk while others were playing or resting. I understood that I am a below-average person when it comes to memorizing power and it was hard for me to accept and I didn’t. I didn’t allow my weakness to be an obstacle on the way of my academic career. And the reason is very simple and it’s my stubbornness. If I weren’t stubborn, I might not be as dedicated or make as much effort.

I covered up my weakness with my efforts and that means I didn’t give up even though I was a below-average person in terms of memorizing power. But of thing for sure is that I was never so discouraged to lose my spirit as well as I can remember. This is for what I feel lucky as I was surrounded by good people, otherwise, I maintained distance from those people who could affect me negatively. So, in my case, giving up was not an option for me.